{"id":60,"date":"2018-11-29T09:18:06","date_gmt":"2018-11-29T09:18:06","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/tw.cm.upt.ro\/c28\/?p=60"},"modified":"2018-12-17T22:57:37","modified_gmt":"2018-12-17T22:57:37","slug":"scop-da-mijloace-ba","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/tw.cm.upt.ro\/c28\/scop-da-mijloace-ba\/","title":{"rendered":"Scop da, mijloace ba.."},"content":{"rendered":"<div id=\"fb-root\"><\/div>\n<p>\u00cen urm\u0103toarele r\u00e2nduri voi publica o parte dintr-o lucrare de-a mea, legat\u0103 de auto-persuasiune.<!--more--><\/p>\n<blockquote><p>Momentul \u00een care procesul de persuasiune a avut loc este acela c\u00e2nd eu m-am \u00eentors la primul meu loc de munc\u0103, unde eram \u0219i sunt \u00een prezent o simpl\u0103 v\u00e2nz\u0103toare \u00eentr-un magazin cu personalitate din centrul ora\u0219ului, dup\u0103 ce am avut posibilitatea de a lucra \u00een domeniul \u00een care studiez \u0219i implicit s\u0103 avansez \u00een carier\u0103 prin dob\u00e2ndirea de experien\u021b\u0103 \u0219i cuno\u0219tin\u021be noi. Au fost mai multe motive pentru care eu am renun\u021bat la locul de munc\u0103 din aria care o studiez , dar cel mai puternic are leg\u0103tur\u0103 cu regula simpatiei din teoria influen\u021bei sociale a lui Robert Cialdini, adic\u0103 faptul c\u0103 nu au existat situa\u021bii de conflict majore \u0219i \u00een majoritatea timpului rela\u021bia dintre mine \u0219i superiori a fost una de prietenie (de\u0219i nu ne cuno\u0219team \u00eenainte de momentul primei mele angaj\u0103ri la magazin). R. Cialdini spune c\u0103 unul dintre aspectele regulii simpatiei este faptul c\u0103 empatizezi cu interlocutorul \u0219i \u00ee\u021bi este mai u\u0219or s\u0103 spui \u201cDa\u201d dac\u0103 o cuno\u0219ti. Un alt motiv pentru care am renun\u021bat la oportunitatea de care m-am izbit a fost disponibilitatea timpului, mai degrab\u0103 lipsa acesteia ; av\u00e2nd un program \u0219i un mediu de lucru mult mai lejer la locul de munc\u0103 precedent, am decis c\u0103 a\u0219a ar fi mai bine \u0219i c\u0103 via\u021ba e lung\u0103 \u0219i plin\u0103 de oportunit\u0103\u021bi.<\/p>\n<p>Acum c\u0103 v-am pus la curent cu prima parte a pove\u0219tii , consider c\u0103 trebuie s\u0103 trecem la partea interesant\u0103 , adic\u0103 aceea c\u00e2nd am decis s\u0103 \u00eemi deschid o afacere. A\u0219adar, c\u00e2nd am \u00eenceput s\u0103 lucrez din nou la magazin am avut un moment \u00een care toate lucrurile s-au pus cap la cap \u0219i am realizat situa\u021bia \u00een care sunt at\u00e2t personal c\u00e2t \u0219i profesional. Eram pe cale s\u0103 termin facultatea \u0219i mi-am dat seama c\u0103 nu \u0219tiu ce s\u0103 fac cu via\u021ba mea \u0219i c\u0103 voi r\u0103m\u00e2ne \u00een continuare o simpl\u0103 v\u00e2nz\u0103toare f\u0103r\u0103 oportunit\u0103\u021bi de dezvoltare. Cre\u00e2ndu-se o situa\u021bie de disonan\u021b\u0103 cognitiv\u0103 \u00een sinea mea, am apelat la dovezi tehnice pentru a dep\u0103\u0219i situa\u021bia, pathosul (adic\u0103 sentimentele mele \u0219i dorin\u021ba de a nu mai stagna) m-au ajutat s\u0103 iau o decizie dificil\u0103 dar important\u0103. M-am convins pe mine \u00eens\u0103mi c\u0103 vreau mai mult \u0219i c\u0103 orice este posibil \u0219i ca urmare mi-am schimbat atitudinea,\u00a0 ideile \u0219i comportamentul, am hot\u0103r\u00e2t c\u0103 trebuie s\u0103 ac\u021bionez \u0219i s\u0103 \u00eencerc pentru c\u0103 nu am nimic de pierdut.<\/p>\n<p>\u00cen concluzie, m-am auto-persuadat cu ajutorul teoriei disonan\u021bei cognitive, atunci c\u00e2nd am ajuns \u00eentr-o situa\u021bie discrepant\u0103 \u0219i am reu\u0219it s\u0103 o dep\u0103\u0219esc apel\u00e2nd la pathos \u0219i la convingerile mele interioare.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>A\u0219adar, voi face tot posibilul s\u0103 \u00eemi pun planul \u00een aplicare \u0219i s\u0103 reu\u0219esc!<\/p>\n<p>Voi ce planuri ave\u021bi? Cum ave\u021bi de g\u00e2nd s\u0103 le realiza\u021bi?<\/p>\n<p>Cu drag,<\/p>\n<p>Roxana P.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u00cen urm\u0103toarele r\u00e2nduri voi publica o parte dintr-o lucrare de-a mea, legat\u0103 de auto-persuasiune.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":110,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"wprm-recipe-roundup-name":"","wprm-recipe-roundup-description":"","ngg_post_thumbnail":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[13],"tags":[27,58],"class_list":["post-60","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-dimineata-devreme","tag-personal","tag-roxana-petrovai"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v27.1.1 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/product\/yoast-seo-wordpress\/ -->\n<title>Scop da, mijloace ba.. - Ea \u0219i prostiile ei<\/title>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/tw.cm.upt.ro\/c28\/scop-da-mijloace-ba\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"en_US\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"Scop da, mijloace ba.. - 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