{"id":207,"date":"2018-12-15T22:17:49","date_gmt":"2018-12-15T22:17:49","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/tw.cm.upt.ro\/c7\/?page_id=207"},"modified":"2018-12-15T22:17:49","modified_gmt":"2018-12-15T22:17:49","slug":"si-esecurile-s-ale-noastre","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/tw.cm.upt.ro\/c7\/?page_id=207","title":{"rendered":"\u0218i e\u0219ecurile-s ale noastre!"},"content":{"rendered":"
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Daca e\u015fti un “perfect”, un “f\u0103r\u0103 de cusur”, articolul \u0103sta nu e chiar pentru tine.<\/p>\n

Eu vorbesc cu \u0103\u015ftia, restu’… Mai c\u00e2te un moment neconfortabil spre penibil. Mai o gaf\u0103. Mai o gre\u015feal\u0103. Mai un e\u015fec ce ne face notorii. A\u015fa…ni\u015fte normalit\u0103\u0163i, a\u015f zice eu. Dar, pe care noi-\u0103\u015ftia “obi\u015fnui\u0163ii”-nu ni le asum\u0103m mereu, ne mai ascundem dup\u0103 deget, ne mai g\u0103sim scuze, ne mai justific\u0103m. Da’ de ce s\u0103 reac\u0163ion\u0103m a\u015fa?! Da’ ce are dac\u0103 am gre\u015fit!? Si dac\u0103 am avut un momemt penibil? Sau totu\u015fi, dac\u0103 am dat-o \u00een bar\u0103?<\/p>\n

Am facut-o \u015fi eu…cu siguran\u0163\u0103 \u00eenc\u0103 o fac. M-am g\u00e2ndit c\u0103 deocamadat\u0103, e suficient doar sa con\u015ftientizez:)). Glumesc! Chiar ar fi cazul s\u0103 ne asum\u0103m tot mai mult ce se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 cu vie\u0163ile noastre, nu \u00een sensul de a ne justifica. Nicidecum. Dar, s\u0103 ne recunoa\u015ftem nou\u0103: “Ok, am facut a\u015fa, trebuia altfel, am dat-o-n bar\u0103. Aia e. Hai s\u0103 \u00eenv\u0103\u0163 ceva din asta”.<\/p>\n

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Cine-s al\u0163ii s\u0103 ne judece, s\u0103 ne catalogheze?! Am mai spus-o \u015fi ar trebui, din punctul meu de vedere, s\u0103 fie o regul\u0103 general valabil\u0103: po\u0163i face ce vrei, at\u00e2t timp, c\u00e2t e\u015fti preg\u0103tit s\u0103 i\u0163i asumi r\u0103spunderea.<\/p>\n

Dac\u0103 ai gre\u015fit, e ok. \u00cen general, cele mai multe din gre\u015feli se repar\u0103. Poate nu \u00een totalitate, uneori, poate nu \u00een timp util. Dar, ce crezi!? Gre\u015feala e o pur\u0103 dovad\u0103 a naturii noastre umane \u015fi a faptului ca am \u00eencercat ceva \u015fi desigur, c\u0103 nu am facut-o cum trebuia:)). Dar, e ok.<\/p>\n

Personal, eram o “queen drama”. Nenumaratele mele mici gre\u015feli au fost pentru mine medii spre tragice:)). \u015ei uite a\u015fa eram consecvent\u0103 \u00een a m\u0103 certa. \u015ei \u00een loc s\u0103 m\u0103 educ s\u0103 fiu tot mai responsabil\u0103, f\u0103ceam exact opusul replicii:”do not presure”. A\u015fadar, nu face\u0163i ca Mihaela! \u015ei cu e\u015fecurile e cam aceea\u015fi situa\u0163ie. Am auzit c\u0103 mul\u0163i din oamenii a\u015ftia de succes au avut parte de m\u0103car un e\u015fec. P\u00e2n\u0103 \u015fi eu am avut parte, \u015fi nu sunt tocmai un om de succes.(dar, este doar o chestiune de timp😎). Iar momentele penibile….nici nu cred ca ar trebui sa le atribuim a\u015fa conota\u0163ii negative. Nu \u015ftiu voi, dar eu, m\u0103 amuz copios, amintindu-mi tot felul de gafe pe care le-am mai f\u0103cut. \u015ei crede\u0163i-m\u0103, eu chiar am ce s\u0103 \u00eemi amintesc:)) \u00cencep s\u0103 cred c\u0103 replica “doar mie mi se putea \u00eentampla” a fost spus\u0103 ca s\u0103 am eu cum s\u0103 m\u0103 comp\u0103timesc😁<\/p>\n

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Pe bune, acum…. Hai s\u0103 nu mai fim ipocri\u0163i. Noi, nuuuu, niciodat\u0103. Doamne fere\u015fte! Doar al\u0163ii, noi nu!..Hai s\u0103 fim noi! Hai s\u0103 facem cum trebuie, dar \u00een felul nostru! Hai s\u0103 nu mai judec\u0103m!<\/p>\n

Hai s\u0103 ne \u00eembun\u0103t\u0103\u0163im pe noi, f\u0103r\u0103 presiune, s\u0103 o facem fiindc\u0103 ne dorim s\u0103 evolu\u0103m, nu s\u0103 demonstr\u0103m. Hai s\u0103 ne \u00eencuraj\u0103m \u015fi sus\u0163inem, s\u0103 cre\u015ftem \u00eempreun\u0103. Hai s\u0103 fim indulgen\u0163i, s\u0103 ne \u00een\u0163elegem unii pe al\u0163ii. Hai s-o l\u0103s\u0103m mai u\u015for cu repro\u015furile, cu “f\u0103\/nu f\u0103..fii a\u015fa, dar nu prea a\u015fa..”.<\/p>\n

S\u0103 ascult\u0103m mai mult, s\u0103 vorbim mai pu\u0163in (\u00een cazul meu, asta cu vorbitul mai pu\u0163in este…”work in progress”😁) Da’ cum ar fi sa fii tu!? Hai c\u0103 o s\u0103 mai tot gre\u015fim. Poate \u00eencepem s\u0103 ne asum\u0103m \u015fi s\u0103 ne \u00een\u0163elegem mai mult. Dac\u0103 nu e\u015fti con\u015ftient de ce \u015fi cum ai f\u0103cut gre\u015fit, cum faci s\u0103 repari?! Hai cu sinceritatea \u015fi asumarea c\u0103 ne lipsesc tare. 🙂<\/p>\n

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